FUCK HIM!!

This post is dedicated to one of my wonderful and faithful readers..

Okay.. So, I got your e-mail and I understand your dilemma because you love him.. But this is the thing... A liar will ALWAYS be a liar.. & A tiger NEVER changes it's stripes... From what you wrote it seems like he's always going to play you on 2nd base! When he had the psycho gf you were forced to play 2nd base.. Until she dumped his good for nothing DUMB BITCH ASS & then he wanted to put you on 1st!?! Then when the new chic at the job came along he put you right back on 2nd base yet again!! It's NOT IMPOSSIBLE BUT it is VERY HARD to play 1st base when you've already allowed yourself to be played on 2nd!! And, the fact that he was so willing and able to go back to his ex is also another BAD THING!! If he ever really wanted to be with you and really wanted you to be his #1 he would have NEVER gone back to her.. EVEN with you telling him that, that was the right thing for him to do!! If he really wanted to be with you he would have said FUCK THAT SKANK it's all about ME & YOU!! And, he would've NEVER looked back at that psycho HOE!!

You are convenient, that's why he can come to you when ever he is feeling down and out, because even though you may not tell him and you do your best to hide it, he can see that you love him, and that soothes his bruised ego! So now, he's hitting you back 4 months later and you want to know what you should do.. THIS IS WHERE YOU GET YOUR CHANCE TO GET SOME GET BACK!! I'm not sure of you're situation.. But the best way to hurt a man is to USE him and DISCARD him.. Now you can't do this and not get rid of him because this will put you right back into a DUMB BITCH situation.. Tell him you need something.. anything.. EXPENSIVE CLOTHES, BAG, SHOES, YOUR RENT PAID, YOUR CAR NOTE, MORTGAGE.AN ALL EXPENSES PAID VACATION... Something, anything.. If he is really worried about getting back into your good graces he'll pay like the stupid fucking douche bag he is!! But if he really thinks he got it like that, he WONT but will keep pressing to see you.. DO NOT SEE HIM WITH OUT BEING COMPENSATED!! Tell him, unfortunately at this time you have NO TIME FOR LAME BITCH ASS NIGGAS and what he needs to do is LOSE YOUR FUCKING #, GET A GRIP AND FIND A FUCKING CLUE!!! If he is willing to compensate you... TAKE THAT MOTHERFUCKER FOR EVERYTHING YOU CAN.. And then hit him with the.. Sorry Boo, I have NO TIME FOR YOU!! Because I'm a REAL BITCH & REAL BITCHES DO REAL THINGS!! So, kick rocks motherfucker!! AND NEVER EVER TAKE HIS CALL OR ACKNOWLEDGE his presence again!!

I guarantee that he may never have another kind word for you, but in the end he'll know that he got played like the DUMB BITCH ASS NIGGA that he really is!

Remember this..NEVER ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE SOMEONES "OPTION" IF THEY ARE YOUR PRIORITY!! Playing 2nd base/runner up just makes you THE 1ST PLACE LOSER!! And really.. who wants that!!?

Good luck, and please let me know how everything works out!! Stay strong DIVA!!

xoxo
Ms. I am so sick of that DUMB BITCH